Aside food and shelter, the need for companionship is one of man’s greatest desires. Even the lesser animals seek companionship, so it is not out of place for humans to naturally crave for love, affection, care, and companionship. But companionship is not something that comes easily. You must first and foremost seek out a partner, convince him/her to be your partner, and then companionship happens thereafter.
That brings us to the dating game. You see in the time of old, dating/courtship was not a thing left to individual choices, rather it was more of brute force. The strongest man always ends up with all the juicy feminine and the weak men are left with nothing. Not much have changed today however; because even though dating is now a thing of choice, the bad guys (just like the strong men of the past) most likely end up with all the pretty and sexy ladies, while the good guys (just like the weak men of old) end up with the leftovers or in most cases nothing at all.
It’s just human psychology to equate badass with strength; majority of our ladies are guilty of this. And tell you what, women find bad guys more attractive, sexy, bold, charming, manly, and domineering. So if you are a nice guy, women just see you as a regular everyday guy; nothing special. But hang on a second; it’s not as if you won’t get the girls because you are a good guy, but you won’t get as much girls as the bad guy next door. And when a badass dude comes along, even the girl you finally got will be whisked away right under your nose, and you know why, every girl likes fun; and bad guys are fun to be with.
So am I insinuating that you must be a bad guy before you can end up with a woman of your dreams? The answer is NO. Even though majority of women find bad guys more attractive (sick psychology if you ask me), but most often than not, these ladies always opt for the good guy when it is time to settle down. Simply put, bad guys provide the fun, while good guys provide a future. Pretty sick right? Well it is what it is. You are either a good guy or a bad guy.
But being a bad guy is not an automatic ticket to get the ladies. It only makes you appear confident, but doesn’t get you the ladies. You need to act before things will begin to happen. Agreed ladies will be naturally drawn to you because of your badass attributes, but if you cannot act when you need to, then you will become boring and automatically start looking like an extremely nice guy.
Being a bad guy means you are intelligent, you are hardworking, you have good oratory skills, you have persuasion skills, you have an I-don’t-give-a-fuck about your beauty kind of attitude, you are a smooth/sleek talker, you have a killer smile, you have an intense look on your face when with the ladies, you have many women at your disposal, funny, unapologetic, unfaithful, bold, heightened personality etc.
Being a good guy means, you are gentle, soft spoken and thoughtful, shy (subjective), careful, slow to act around ladies, diplomatic, withdrawn, apologetic, faithful, wanting to please women at all cost, under value self, anxious, etc. But these traits are by no means bad traits; it’s just that most women don’t find these traits attractive. So as a result, you will most likely end up with fewer ladies, compared to the bad guy with all those awful traits.
However, let all the good guys around the world take solace in the fact that majority of women wants nothing more than to settle down with a good guy. So you see, you get to eat the bottom pot, which you will agree with me tastes better than the food served from the top of the pot. They go to the school of the bad guys to learn, and then come back to the good guys to put what they have learnt to good use.
That brings us to the dating game. You see in the time of old, dating/courtship was not a thing left to individual choices, rather it was more of brute force. The strongest man always ends up with all the juicy feminine and the weak men are left with nothing. Not much have changed today however; because even though dating is now a thing of choice, the bad guys (just like the strong men of the past) most likely end up with all the pretty and sexy ladies, while the good guys (just like the weak men of old) end up with the leftovers or in most cases nothing at all.
It’s just human psychology to equate badass with strength; majority of our ladies are guilty of this. And tell you what, women find bad guys more attractive, sexy, bold, charming, manly, and domineering. So if you are a nice guy, women just see you as a regular everyday guy; nothing special. But hang on a second; it’s not as if you won’t get the girls because you are a good guy, but you won’t get as much girls as the bad guy next door. And when a badass dude comes along, even the girl you finally got will be whisked away right under your nose, and you know why, every girl likes fun; and bad guys are fun to be with.
So am I insinuating that you must be a bad guy before you can end up with a woman of your dreams? The answer is NO. Even though majority of women find bad guys more attractive (sick psychology if you ask me), but most often than not, these ladies always opt for the good guy when it is time to settle down. Simply put, bad guys provide the fun, while good guys provide a future. Pretty sick right? Well it is what it is. You are either a good guy or a bad guy.
But being a bad guy is not an automatic ticket to get the ladies. It only makes you appear confident, but doesn’t get you the ladies. You need to act before things will begin to happen. Agreed ladies will be naturally drawn to you because of your badass attributes, but if you cannot act when you need to, then you will become boring and automatically start looking like an extremely nice guy.
Being a bad guy means you are intelligent, you are hardworking, you have good oratory skills, you have persuasion skills, you have an I-don’t-give-a-fuck about your beauty kind of attitude, you are a smooth/sleek talker, you have a killer smile, you have an intense look on your face when with the ladies, you have many women at your disposal, funny, unapologetic, unfaithful, bold, heightened personality etc.
Being a good guy means, you are gentle, soft spoken and thoughtful, shy (subjective), careful, slow to act around ladies, diplomatic, withdrawn, apologetic, faithful, wanting to please women at all cost, under value self, anxious, etc. But these traits are by no means bad traits; it’s just that most women don’t find these traits attractive. So as a result, you will most likely end up with fewer ladies, compared to the bad guy with all those awful traits.
However, let all the good guys around the world take solace in the fact that majority of women wants nothing more than to settle down with a good guy. So you see, you get to eat the bottom pot, which you will agree with me tastes better than the food served from the top of the pot. They go to the school of the bad guys to learn, and then come back to the good guys to put what they have learnt to good use.
In a nutshell just be yourself. If being a good guy works for you, stick with it, and if being a badass works for you, also stick with it. Just be you….
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